1.Try to be a good listener first: You must be a good listener first. If you are sensitive to each and every word of hers then she will try to offer you the same facility. But if you are too arrogant and head strong, she might never give you her ear at all. It’s easy. Start trying to listen to her carefully. She must be trying to tell you something.
2.Give her a gift before crucial discussions: If you have something important to discuss and if you want your wife’s nod for that, a good idea to get her nod is by gifting her with something first. When she is in the clouds enjoying the gift, simply start the conversation about that crucial ‘something’ and get a nod from her. Of course, if your wife is smarter than both of us, she will never fall in this trap. Try a different idea then.
3.Be humble: Humility is the mother of all qualities. You need to learn it. Men hate to be humble but that quality gives them grace and superiority. Be more approachable and your wife will start listening to you more than ever. If you are too egotistic then things won’t work out at all.
4.empathize: Empathy is one of the greatest qualities that human beings can cultivate. Empathize with your wife’s problems and her situations; this will naturally make her a good listener. Whenever you feel low, she will make you feel good. She will patiently listen to all your concerns and treat you like a king.
My Name is Gideon Tpum. Currently A Student Studying Computer Science In A Nigerian Institution. I Hope My Blog Is Helpful.*winks*
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